Xu Yingying holds promise 42 wish list for her son.
A 36-year old mother's last words:
May, August 28 is my last birthday, I feel ashamed in front of my family and son. As a mother my son too little, nor walk with his long, hope on my birthday, as a 6 year old son a happy and unforgettable memories. I hope you can help me achieve these wishes for their children, in any case, I will make the children happy. Thank you very much.
Suffering from leukemia, she sat up in bed to write down 42 wish sickness accompanied after a 6 year old son to be realized. However harsh destiny, just write down a wish a few days later, she suddenly ill, and died and wishes into a bucket ... Husband suffering from encephalopathy, watched helplessly ignorant son of unknown on his knees, I do not know how to explain it all, crying and crying eyes.
"Home" is still there, were never reunite. Said his wife and children, Qin rose cry several times.
Wednesday, August 17.
Shandong province traditional Chinese medicine hospital haematology ward in the East, 36-year old Xu Yingying wearing a hospital gown. She was sitting up in bed, small table to eat with her family to pen and paper. Qinsheng felt some unexpected husband, wife, this is you want to do?
"To write birthday wishes. "She smiled. Although hesitant, he followed his wife's request, handed over to pen and paper. Xu Yingying bow began to write in earnest.
After a half hour, the wife took up pen and paper. Write in black and white with all kinds of wishes. It turned out that his wife's birthday wish is that accompanied his son to finish the 42 in her lifetime wish. These wishes, both went to see movies, go to the Grand Lake so it looks look forward to if you can easily achieve, also went to Beijing to see the great wall seems to need time and money wishes.
However, time has become a major challenge. In the wish list finished after 4 days, Xu Yingying couldn't wait to August 28 birthday. At Grandma's House for the summer holiday of the 6 year old son, don't know when my mother to think about their hearts, walked the last day of his life with little warning. August 21, at 4 o'clock in the afternoon, lying on the bed of the Xu Yingying suddenly ill, and bleeding of the lungs to cause respiratory difficulties, with regrets leaving the room.
Xu Yingying is suffering from leukemia last August, roughly the same time, in bridge, a hospital nurse, she lasted several days after the fever feeling unwell, went to hospital for an examination, and diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia.
Xu Yingying made 42 for 6 years old son a birthday wish.
Photo of bed
Xu Yingying is the only breadwinner in the family. Diagnosis of leukemia in an instant, "the sky is falling. "At that time, have worked so hard to save 40,000 yuan to savings at home, but compared with the treatment fee of three hundred thousand or four hundred thousand Yuan and inadequate. At the time, her son was just 5 years old. Her husband was born in 1958, who is nearly 60 years old, and her husband also had cerebral thrombosis complications, does not work.
Husband Qinsheng is the original cotton factory workers, the opportunity to catch up with the last of the welfare housing distribution, Tianqiao district points to the side of the lane near a one bedroom house. In 2009, Qinsheng met Xu Yingying in the hospital, and married that year.
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In 2011, the son who just turned 1 year old shortly after Qinsheng suddenly feel giddy in the head, quickly took a taxi home. Got home just to lie down, he felt, so I called my friend, friend he quickly rushed to the hospital emergency room. After the diagnosis, at age 53, he suffered from cerebral infarction.
After days in a coma in the hospital, in under the care of his wife, he finally woke up, but falling from legacy, limited right limb of his body, walk dragging the leg, right arm and arm weakness.
On August 18, Xu Yingying birthday 10 days ago, on the advice of friends and relatives, in the province of traditional Chinese medicine ward, a family of three sitting together, took a photo, and ate a big dinner. This photo, became a habit not usually take pictures of the family's only one photo.
Ward, the family took only a photo.
Cross stitch in "home"
5:30 P.M. August 22, half edge Lane, Tianqiao district Qinsheng's home on the 22nd floor, the 58-year old man took off his glasses and wiped a tear. His eyes are red, from the afternoon of August 21 kept crying until now, seems to have no power.
In an area of more than 40 square meters of the House, although with the lights on, but the light and not so good. On the North wall in the living room, hung with 2 children's Awards. On the living room wall hangs a cross stitch picture, centered, embroidered with a huge "home". Once the family joke, never life. Cross stitch borders clip 2 photos, one for mother and child photo of Daming Lake, a was the son of a personal photo. 2013, captured on this photo of the Daming Lake, became a mother and son only the photo.
August 21, at 5 o'clock in the afternoon the scene at old Qin playback from time to time in the brain. 1 hour after the death of his wife, 6-year old son to the hospital. Children do not know that my mother has to wake up to, he walked over to the bed and touched her mother's hand, as well as countless times in the past, stepped forward to kiss my mother on the forehead. Only, this time, my mother never responded. Next to a room full of family does not own, suddenly cried into a.
Sent on August 22 after his wife's body, old Qin went home, watched the House furnishings, could not help but scream burst into tears again.
Xu Yingying was alive, the 6-year old son in bed watching my mother.
Children going to school
Old Qin said his son too much, not just 42 wish. Son was born early in the month before the expected date of arrival, only more than 1600 grams at birth, relying on the incubator had a hard time living down. His wife enough milk, children would then be receiving Dong Jia town, licheng Grandma fed.
"Feed the corn puree, eating sweet potatoes grow......" the old son of Qin, a child suffering from hardship. Fortunately he was stout, 6-year-olds have more than 80 kilos, height is 1.3-meter.
However, due to poor families, the children did not like the other kids in town, had the opportunity to travel. Birth date, children had never been to Jinan, visit attractions are only limited to the Daming Lake, baotu spring, Zoo garden card can go to places, and near quancheng square, Museum of science and technology. But, even so close to the attractions, also became a mother again have fulfilled wish.
"There are 8 day school, you say how to do Ah? "Old Qin thought about to enter primary one in tiancheng road grade son, nasty feet. "Admission got, see the child to go to school, even children's school fees and I can't get it out! Alas, the powerless! "Old Qin said in April this year, was dragged into the quagmire of disease, he and his wife, had talked to give foster children. "The good people of Weifang, Yantai has made a phone call. "Old Qin will hold the tears back, sobbed out," Finally, we are not willing to give up. "
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According to Qin introduced wife in school before school, after graduated began nursing. "After having children, her work during the day, went home from work to look after children. "Old Qin said he was just suffering from cerebral thrombosis, is not flexible, serious or even life cannot take care of themselves.
In this case, his wife provoked the burden of home. In 2012, the old Qin Han Yu was 2 years old because of neglect, only in nurseries, wife alone this life support for the whole family. "The day is OK, the dull day there is the plain of happiness. "Old Qin laments.
"I just took her away, transient existence of ashes funeral home. "The old cry of Qin, he touched the photo of his wife and son. Old Qin said, although he suffered from cerebral thrombosis, but the condition has improved.
For the sake of the boy, old Qin to the society through their own labour fought for a Bacon work. Taking into account road primary school children later in the day, but also act on its own is not convenient, so the old Qin hoped that well-intentioned people can help to find a job, preferably a little close to home, "so that I can easily pick up the child. "
Follow-up: a lot of people are concerned about, the father was surprised
August 23, at 7 o'clock in the evening, Jinan Tianqiao street side of the lane in an old building, Qinsheng is looking after the six-year old son Qin Han Yu. Old incandescent lamps are not too bright, so only sishilai flat House appear more narrow.
His wife left the next day, Qinsheng didn't think it affects so many people's hearts, and getting so much sympathy and love. He pointed to was playing with the remote control the son of remotely piloted aircraft and on the ground, said: "this was sent in by a media, a round of Xu Yingying ' unfulfilled wishes. "
Talk about his wife's departure, he laments, August 21, at one o'clock in the afternoon, when he received a phone call reached the hospital, she had slipped into a coma. Although Xu Yingying was looking at him, but has no consciousness, Qinsheng called his wife's name, also did not receive any response. This is the wife one last look at his eyes, then couldn't keep my eyes open, no trust. Six-year old son in the bed keep shouting, Xu Yingying is quietly and left.
Six-year-olds seem to be on the mother's departure there is no concept, he was Naughty. He did not know, mother has all the dreams you have given him.
Until the final moments of their lives, it found that too little to his son
Qinsheng seriously look at each word on the wish list. At the mother of a patient suffering from Leukemia in birthday wishes, Xu Yingying has done the worst plan. On the future of families and children, she also thought a lot, she said as a mother can give him too little.
Xu Yingying has listed a total of 42 wishes for her son. "Some son is often said to me, is that I want kids. "On the wish list, the first wish is to see a movie. Xu Yingying said, the child is six years old, they have never watched a film at the cinema.
"The poor at home, food and clothing. "Xu Yingying's brother, Xu Yingying only one of three Labor's ability to make money, just enough to live on. Like the second wish "to eat Western food" is the child mentioned a number of times, "see other kids go to KFC, he also wanted to go to, and she still didn't take him to one. "
On August 18, said Xu Yingying lying in a hospital bed, became seriously ill after that family with too many things not to do, and now dinner has become a luxury. She took the piece of paper looked and looked, referring to grieved her to tears on several occasions.
It is based on the thoughts of their loved ones, Xu Yingying has a strong desire for life. Ideas, Xu Yingying never gave up. In the past year, she has more than 80 days of chemotherapy, most people can't put up with uncomfortable symptoms, nausea from chemotherapy, Xu Yingying never mention it to their loved ones. In the days of high fever, body without strength, and headaches to fall asleep, she survived.
Three days after the disease claimed the lives of Xu Yingying. Taste of fresh lychee, row a boat, swim, to leave a shadow of Tiananmen Square and so on desire, she cannot accompany child come true.
Father lost his capacity to work, month Lo-Fi also owed 380,000
Last year, Xu Yingying has more than 300 days lying in bed, Qinsheng travel daily in the province, East of traditional Chinese medicine hospital and Tianqiao district home to his wife to dinner. He said although it was tiring, sometimes desperate, but at least his wife alive is to rely on. Now, his wife left him, he no longer goes around, but much heavier.
Qinsheng said, his wife went with his final benediction, they have to be strong to live. He pointed a certificate on the wall and said, son is as good as gold is very clever, the body is also very strong. He wanted his son to be like his name as Qin Han Yu, life strong, lush.
The most practical at the moment apart from dealing with his wife's funeral, is the problem of children to primary school. Qinsheng worried about taking care of bad children. "Meals, transfers alone is difficult. "Five years ago, Qinsheng brain infarction, incapacity, cumbersome activity, need to take medicine every day.
Xu Yingying worked in a hospital as a nurse for many years, was the only source of income. Ill a year ago, home thousands of Lo-Fi live alone. And now father of less than 500 yuan each month and only the low income, and they still owe him a debt of around 380,000 yuan.
Living for the future, Qinsheng said, also is hoping to have good people help them to tide over the current difficulties.
(This article was originally entitled the leukemia died after MOM gave son promise 42 wish list ... Husband sick Alex Lo-life)